4 Habits of Toxic People

One of the basic stuff about being Human, are the Relationships we keep.

But being toxic is a concious decision. Acting on it is a resultant of whatsoever drives anyone whose literally toxic.

However, nothing is really worth being a toxic individual. It’s important to keep one’s eye peeled over the people bee call friends or relate with.

Here are the four major Habits any toxic person would indulge in;

Habit 1#. They Are Envious!.

People who are quite toxic just always happen to know how to be jealous of what you do and all. They want to prove to you at every point that they’re capable of doing exactly what you do. Worst case scenario, that they can do better!.

Sometimes, it can be visible in the way such an individual talks or simple face expressions they give in response. They will try as much as possible to stay ahead of you. If possible, try anything in their capacity to prevent you from getting better or ahead of them.

Habit 2#. They pretend alot!.

Although not quite easier to detect, it is the fastest way of knowing the Toxic ones in your life. Pay attention to details and their words. Does such an individual says something and Act in contrary? Not knowing they would eventually be caught unawares? That’s pretense!.

Pretenders are prone to stabbing one from behind at any time. So, when you perceive one around you, stay away from such. Usually, pretenders are the least to people to stick around with.

Habit 3#. They Give Negative Critics!.

Does this person sees nothing except your “flaws” at all times?. No, Im not saying people don’t Criticize, infact! Some “constructive” critics helps in building you up. But if the only comment such could ever pass across is aimed at demoralizing you, he/she is toxic.

They will always talk down on one in place of defending one, speak Ill of you. They don’t care how hurtful their words may be and would stop at nothing to talk you off your goals.

Habit 4#. They Are Revengeful!.

Retaliation and unforgiveness- are completely off the any healthy “friendship or relationship” zone. Toxic people don’t know how to let go. Such a person (is) and would always be in look out for how much they can hurt/pay you back.

They don’t love genuinely and are probably trying to keep you for some benefits. Once you trespass this “benefit'” zone, such would roast you on your smallest and unconscious mistakes no matter what.

Here’s what to do.

It’s all based in two options, it all depends on what your choice would be;
1. Cut off/ stay away/ Avoid such a person totally.
2. Help that person get over that Habit.

You can;

1. Point it out right. Communication is very essential here, tell them directly.
2. Show them more love. Try not to act based on what they do. Such could change though, especially if they know you knew.

Conclusion,

It’s quite important to know the kind of people we live and deal with and be more scrupulous about “Actions”.

Knowing the afformentioned may make one more sensitive to being around people almost every time. However, it is for the purpose of self growth.